I’ve been having some trouble sleeping lately. I guess it has all to do with having a lot on my mind.
A) In one month I will be saying goodbye to my perfect little apartment in the south of Antwerp.
Since I can’t pay for it any more. Since…
B) On top of that I have been having nightmares about the café I work at. Ever since I had to clean up after this drunken customer pissing all over the place, his fizzy pee haunts me in my sleep.
C) Same goes for Kaley Cuoco’s lip sync battle. That shit’s craayzaay scary.
I needed something to take my mind of things.
I decided to join my dad for a little Tuesday B-ball practice. He wanted to try out his new state of the art Derrick Rose shoes.
And to me, it seemed like a good day to kick some veteran ass.
Seemed like the only person I opened a can of whoop ass on … was myself.
Dad: “Hi guys, I brought my daughter with me tonight to join us during our game, I hope that’s okay.”
Roger: “Yeah sure,…
… I’m out of shape today anyway.”
Me: “Errr… (?!)”
Apparently some of the gents weren’t too happy with a female entering the bunch. Since a couple of them were really looking for some ‘guys time only’.
Turned out one fellow’s wife was diagnosed with advanced cancer, which obviously is a big blow. She only has 12 months to live.
And Roger’s old Missus had just left him.
Roger: “I haven’t eaten for seven days.”
Apparently she came back from a holiday in Spain and told him: “You can come and collect me from the airport but you’re not taking me or my luggage back with you.”
All the more reason to get this party started, right?
Me: “Suicide anyone?”
Dad: “Word choice, dumb-ass. It’s not the best idea to mention death or anything related… Besides, you don’t want to put ideas into Roger’s old cranium.”
Some guy on the team: “You can warm up by keeping score.”
Steven: “Don’t listen to him, kid. I’ll sit this first round out. You go and play.”
Okay, I wasn’t taking this training as serious as some of the alpha males in the bunch but I wasn’t planning on letting these dinosaurs walk all over me. They didn’t expect a whole lot of me so I might as well just confirm that prejudice. Or give them a run for their money.
But I was a tad rusty. My shots were lousy. I either came too short or threw too far. Same problem with my passes. I needed to readjust my arm strength.
So I went all out on my defense.
Some guys were double my size. But I jumped and clapped like my life depended on it. I managed to block some passes and dribbles biting the old men’s calves like an annoying chihuahua.
Of course my ‘hands-on’ defense strategy exhausted me in no time. After the first half, which lasted about 45 minutes, I was already starting to develop reversed Joker mouth.
Wow these veterans have physique! I go on morning runs but this is a completely different ball game. My tongue was on my knees. I had forgotten how tiring this was.
Paul: “So you played basketball yourself?”
Paul is 61. He had a close shave with death recently. Two months ago his heartbeat was only 25.
Me: “Yeah I played when I was 14 or so.”
Paul: “Gee, that must have been a very long time ago.”
Paul: “I mean, at least a couple of years.”
I did some quick mathematics -who am I kidding, I’m super slow at mathematics- and realized I started playing when I was about 14. That ‘ll be 14 years ago next month. Half of my existence!
This was like a subconscious anniversary. Not that that period is dear to me. I got bullied. A lot.
Some girls on my team would launch the pass before they’d call my name. By the time I looked, the ball would just crash into my face and everybody would burst into laughter. It was a tough learning school. From which I still benefit today. It taught me not to give up. Ever.
Fortunately I wasn’t the weakest link in this bunch.
Paul: “See that guy over there? That’s Walter. Super intelligent man. But incredibly useless on the field. He couldn’t score once, not even if his life depended on it. That’s because he can’t catch a single pass. He sucks. But he’s here every week. So we cut him some slack.”
I felt connected with Walter. Cause I know how it feels. But I didn’t spare him on the defense front. The poor bastard could hardly get any passes through from his team mates.
Suddenly I was faced with the beauty of it all. We all had our personal reasons to be on that court. And to ‘give it a shot’. Sometimes we’d miss. Sometimes we’d score. But the outcome was the same on both sides: in the end we had fun. And all it involved was a metal ring and a little bit of fair play.
After one and a half hour of running around, my dad’s team (including me) won. And I contributed the full six points! That’s six more than Walter on his team. And a couple dozen less than my dad. With training being over, everybody could go back to their lives. And their wives. Except for Roger…
Me latching on to the score board: “Wow, I’m dead!”
(Word choice! Word choice!)
In the car I had a little post game talk with my dad.
Dad: “You did good against those old bastards. You got better and better by the end of the game.”
It did come back to me. And even though I didn’t bring my A-game, I very much enjoyed the workout and the trip down memory lane. And for one whole hour and a half I didn’t think about my problems once.
Me: “You know dad, I’m really glad we did this. The fact that we did this together was the best part…And you definitely have the nicest shoes on the team.”
Dad: “I know, right.”
That night I slept like a rose.
A Derrick Rose.
Here’s another trip down memory lane:
(G. Love & Special Sauce)